{"id":3088,"date":"2025-04-19T12:30:00","date_gmt":"2025-04-19T09:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/?p=3088"},"modified":"2025-04-19T12:30:01","modified_gmt":"2025-04-19T09:30:01","slug":"dogum-meselesi-ve-erkeklerin-hadsizligi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/2025\/04\/19\/dogum-meselesi-ve-erkeklerin-hadsizligi\/","title":{"rendered":"Do\u011fum meselesi ve erkeklerin hadsizli\u011fi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>AKP iktidar\u0131 epeyce bir s\u00fcredir kad\u0131nlar\u0131n do\u011furmas\u0131na ve nas\u0131l do\u011furaca\u011f\u0131na kafay\u0131 takm\u0131\u015f durumda. \u201cEn az \u00fc\u00e7 \u00e7ocuk\u201dtan \u201cHer k\u00fcrtaj bir Uludere\u2019dir\u201de, \u201c\u00c7ocuk do\u011furmayan kad\u0131n eksiktir, yar\u0131md\u0131r\u201ddan \u201cSezaryenle do\u011fum nesli kurutuyor\u201da kadar neler duyduk bug\u00fcne kadar. Son zamanlarda N\u00fcfus Politikalar\u0131 Kurulu, Aile Enstit\u00fcs\u00fc, Aile Y\u0131l\u0131 gibi ara\u00e7larla h\u0131z kazanan ve asl\u0131nda do\u011frudan bedenlerimiz \u00fczerinde s\u00f6z hakk\u0131 iddia eden bu icraat\u0131n sonuncusu, futbol oynamak i\u00e7in sahaya inen bir grup adama \u201cDo\u011fal olan normal do\u011fum\u201d pankart\u0131yla ahkam kestirmek oldu. Evet, bolca do\u011furmam\u0131z\u0131, onu da illaki vajinal do\u011fumla yapmam\u0131z\u0131 istiyorlar. Ancak bunun AKP iktidar\u0131na \u00f6zg\u00fc olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 unutmamak gerekiyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc do\u011furmam\u0131z, patriyarkal kapitalizmin s\u00fcreklili\u011fi i\u00e7in elzem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Erkek futbolcular\u0131n bu hadsizli\u011fi \u00fczerine \u201cBedenimiz bizimdir\u201d slogan\u0131n\u0131n tart\u0131\u015fmas\u0131z hakl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tekrar ve tekrar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken, 15-16 ya\u015flar\u0131mdayken ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m tats\u0131z deneyimi hat\u0131rlad\u0131m. D\u00fczenli regl olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in gitti\u011fim jinekolog, muayeneden sonra polikistik over sendromum oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klamak yerine \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015fti: \u201cK\u0131z\u0131m sende tencere var, ka\u015f\u0131k var fakat yeme\u011fi yapam\u0131yorsun.\u201d Anlayamad\u0131m. \u201cYani ileriki ya\u015flarda \u00e7ocuk do\u011furman \u00e7ok zor olur. Ge\u00e7 evlenme, \u00e7ok kariyer falan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme,\u201d dedi. Kafamdan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 kaynar sular d\u00f6k\u00fclen o an\u0131 aradan ge\u00e7en yakla\u015f\u0131k 20 y\u0131l\u0131n ard\u0131ndan h\u00e2l\u00e2 \u00e7ok iyi an\u0131ms\u0131yorum. Nas\u0131l yani, ne alaka, e ben daha 15 ya\u015f\u0131nday\u0131m, ne \u00e7ocu\u011fu? Sinirlendim, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey diyemedim, \u00f6fkemi i\u00e7ime att\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Y\u0131llarca \u201cBu herif daha kim bilir neler ediyordur?\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm durdum, i\u00e7ime dert oldu. \u0130\u00e7imi so\u011futabilen tek \u015fey bunu kad\u0131nlarla payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m toplant\u0131lar, i\u00e7imizde b\u00fcy\u00fcyen \u00f6fkeyi m\u00fccadeleye nas\u0131l d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrece\u011fimizi konu\u015ftu\u011fumuz bulu\u015fmalar oldu. \u201c\u015eimdiki Merve olsa o herife a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131n pay\u0131n\u0131 verirdi,\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedim de\u011fil tabii. Ama belki de veremezdim, bilmiyorum. \u015eiddet, taciz veya herhangi bir s\u0131n\u0131r ihlali kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda donup kalabiliyoruz da bazen. Fakat \u015funu \u00e7ok iyi biliyorum ki \u00e7aresizlik hissinden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131n yolu kad\u0131n dayan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131ndan ge\u00e7iyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u0131z karde\u015flerimizle g\u00fc\u00e7leniyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\"><strong><em>Merve<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>AKP iktidar\u0131 epeyce bir s\u00fcredir kad\u0131nlar\u0131n do\u011furmas\u0131na ve nas\u0131l do\u011furaca\u011f\u0131na kafay\u0131 takm\u0131\u015f durumda. \u201cEn az \u00fc\u00e7 \u00e7ocuk\u201dtan \u201cHer k\u00fcrtaj bir Uludere\u2019dir\u201de, \u201c\u00c7ocuk do\u011furmayan kad\u0131n eksiktir, yar\u0131md\u0131r\u201ddan \u201cSezaryenle do\u011fum nesli kurutuyor\u201da kadar neler duyduk bug\u00fcne kadar. Son zamanlarda N\u00fcfus Politikalar\u0131 Kurulu, Aile Enstit\u00fcs\u00fc, Aile Y\u0131l\u0131 gibi ara\u00e7larla h\u0131z kazanan ve asl\u0131nda do\u011frudan bedenlerimiz \u00fczerinde s\u00f6z hakk\u0131 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":3090,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[95],"tags":[358,359,360,166,204],"class_list":["post-3088","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mektubumuz-var","tag-beden","tag-bedenimiz-bizimdir","tag-dogum","tag-okurlarimizdan","tag-patriyarka"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3088","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3088"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3088\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3091,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3088\/revisions\/3091"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3090"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3088"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3088"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3088"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}