Her \u015fey \u00e7o\u011fu zaman evin i\u00e7inde ba\u015flar. K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u201cSen yard\u0131m et, abine gerek yok\u201d denilen sofralarda, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u201cay\u0131p\u201d diye yar\u0131m b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 odalarda, sessizli\u011fin de \u00f6\u011fretildi\u011fi evlerde b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck. Sessizli\u011fi, uyumlu olmay\u0131, idare etmeyi \u00f6\u011frendik. Ama b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e fark ettik ki d\u0131\u015far\u0131s\u0131 da \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 de\u011fildi. Okulda, i\u015fte, sokakta; her yerde ayn\u0131 hik\u00e2yenin farkl\u0131 y\u00fczleriyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131k. Bir \u015fekilde \u201cikincil\u201d olmam\u0131z bekleniyordu. Sanki g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir el s\u00fcrekli yerimizi hat\u0131rlat\u0131yordu: Biraz geride dur, biraz sessiz ol, biraz az iste\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Biz kad\u0131nlar, bu sessizli\u011fi ilmek ilmek s\u00f6kmeye ba\u015flad\u0131k. Kimi zaman ofiste sesimiz kesildi\u011finde, kimi zaman evde eme\u011fimiz yok say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, birbirimizin hik\u00e2yelerinde kendimizi bulduk. Ve anlad\u0131k ki dayan\u0131\u015fma bir kelime de\u011fil bir direni\u015f bi\u00e7imi, bir ya\u015fama tutunma yoluydu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
25 Kas\u0131m Kad\u0131na Y\u00f6nelik \u015eiddetle M\u00fccadele G\u00fcn\u00fc bizim i\u00e7in yaln\u0131zca \u015fiddete kar\u015f\u0131 bir hayk\u0131r\u0131\u015f de\u011fil; bize bi\u00e7ilen \u201cikincil cins\u201d rol\u00fcne itiraz\u0131n da sembol\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u015fiddet yaln\u0131zca fiziksel de\u011fildir. Bir kad\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fersizle\u015ftiren bak\u0131\u015f da, onun eme\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez k\u0131lan sistem de, sesini duymayan toplum da ayn\u0131 k\u00f6kten beslenir: patriyarkadan, yani erkek egemen sistemden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bizler ofislerde, fabrikalarda, evlerde, sokaklarda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen ve direnen kad\u0131nlar\u0131z. Her birimizin hik\u00e2yesi farkl\u0131 ama \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz ortakt\u0131r: G\u00f6r\u00fcnmez kalmak istemiyoruz. E\u015fit, \u00f6zg\u00fcr ve onurlu bir ya\u015fam istiyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u0131z karde\u015flik i\u015fte tam burada filizleniyor. Birimizin sesi titredi\u011finde di\u011feri onun yerine konu\u015fuyor, birimiz yoruldu\u011funda \u00f6teki el uzat\u0131yor. Birimizin hik\u00e2yesi susturulmak istendi\u011finde hep birlikte anlat\u0131yoruz. Sessiz kalmak zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131lan kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k at\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ayn\u0131 hik\u00e2yenin farkl\u0131 sayfalar\u0131nda yer al\u0131yoruz ama ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmleyle bitiriyoruz: Yaln\u0131z de\u011filiz. Biz birbirimize bak\u0131nca g\u00fc\u00e7 bulan kad\u0131nlar\u0131z. Birbirimizin aynas\u0131nda var oluyoruz. Ailede ba\u015flayan e\u015fitsizli\u011fe ve toplumda yeniden \u00fcretilen ikincili\u011fe kar\u015f\u0131 birbirimizin omzuna yaslanarak b\u00fcy\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu 25 Kas\u0131m\u2019da yeniden hat\u0131rl\u0131yoruz: Hi\u00e7bir kad\u0131n, hi\u00e7bir lgbti+ yaln\u0131z y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyecek ve hi\u00e7bir kad\u0131n, hi\u00e7bir lgbti+ yaln\u0131z de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Umutsuzlu\u011fa kap\u0131l\u0131rsan 8 Mart’ta, Gece Y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fc’nde, 25 Kas\u0131m’da, Onur Haftas\u0131’nda t\u00fcm engellemelere ra\u011fmen meydanlara \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fcnleri ve o kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hat\u0131rla!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Her \u015fey \u00e7o\u011fu zaman evin i\u00e7inde ba\u015flar. K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u201cSen yard\u0131m et, abine gerek yok\u201d denilen sofralarda, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u201cay\u0131p\u201d diye yar\u0131m b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 odalarda, sessizli\u011fin de \u00f6\u011fretildi\u011fi evlerde b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck. Sessizli\u011fi, uyumlu olmay\u0131, idare etmeyi \u00f6\u011frendik. Ama b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e fark ettik ki d\u0131\u015far\u0131s\u0131 da \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 de\u011fildi. Okulda, i\u015fte, sokakta; her yerde ayn\u0131 hik\u00e2yenin farkl\u0131 y\u00fczleriyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131k. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":3247,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[95],"tags":[119,124,176],"class_list":["post-3244","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mektubumuz-var","tag-25-kasim","tag-feminist-mucadele","tag-kadin-dayanismasi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3244","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3244"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3244\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3254,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3244\/revisions\/3254"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3247"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3244"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3244"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3244"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}