{"id":585,"date":"2021-01-05T12:16:27","date_gmt":"2021-01-05T09:16:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/?p=585"},"modified":"2021-02-24T17:57:59","modified_gmt":"2021-02-24T14:57:59","slug":"biraz-da-faillerin-uykulari-kacsin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/2021\/01\/05\/biraz-da-faillerin-uykulari-kacsin\/","title":{"rendered":"Biraz da faillerin uykular\u0131 ka\u00e7s\u0131n!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kad\u0131nlar hayatlar\u0131 boyunca kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 erkek \u015fiddeti pratiklerinin bedenlerinde ve ruhlar\u0131nda a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaray\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fcze serecekti elbet. Konu\u015fmak kolay olmad\u0131, olmayacak. Ama art\u0131k yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 biliyoruz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0130lk k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131m, Leyla isimli bir Twitter kullan\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n, yazar Hasan Ali Topta\u015f hakk\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir yorumla \u00e7ak\u0131ld\u0131. Bu yorumda Topta\u015f\u2019\u0131n kendisi ve arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 taciz etti\u011fi ima ediliyordu ve erkek egemen s\u00f6ylem an\u0131nda savunmaya ge\u00e7ti. \u0130tibarl\u0131 ve tan\u0131nan bir yazar\u0131n bunu yapm\u0131\u015f olabilece\u011fine inanmayan erkekler, kad\u0131nlara \u201ckan\u0131t nerede\u201d diye soruyorlard\u0131. Ard\u0131ndan birden fazla kad\u0131n\u0131n ayn\u0131 yazar\u0131 if\u015fas\u0131yla kimi erkekler geri ad\u0131m atarken as\u0131l \u015fok (!) Topta\u015f\u2019\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131yla ya\u015fand\u0131. Yazar, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u201ceril faillik\u201d oldu\u011funu ancak \u015fimdi anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylerken \u201cistemeden k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00fczd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc\u201d kad\u0131nlardan \u00f6z\u00fcr diliyordu. Bu \u00f6z\u00fcr bile say\u0131lmayan a\u00e7\u0131klama kamuoyunda su\u00e7un kabul\u00fc olarak alg\u0131lansa da yazar sonradan bu a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131n\u0131 geri \u00e7ekti ve hi\u00e7bir su\u00e7lamay\u0131 kabul etmedi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. Ancak bu ya\u015fananlar edebiyat, medya, sanat, siyaset ve akademi ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere bir\u00e7ok sekt\u00f6rden kad\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in cesaretlendirmi\u015fti bir kere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00d6zellikle \u00e7evresinde veya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 meslek dal\u0131nda itibarl\u0131 erkeklerin, iktidar alanlar\u0131ndan g\u00fc\u00e7 alarak \u00fczerlerinde tahakk\u00fcm kurduklar\u0131 kad\u0131nlara kar\u015f\u0131 i\u015fledi\u011fi cinsel su\u00e7lar, herkesin bildi\u011fi bir s\u0131r gibi\u2026 Bu erkeklerin cezas\u0131z kalaca\u011f\u0131na inanarak birden fazla kad\u0131na ayn\u0131 kabusu ya\u015fatm\u0131\u015f\/ya\u015fatacak olmas\u0131, buz gibi bir ger\u00e7ek. Feminist m\u00fccadelenin en b\u00fcy\u00fck kazan\u0131mlar\u0131ndan biri de, bu \u201cs\u0131rr\u0131\u201d art\u0131k konu\u015fuluyor, hatta yarg\u0131lan\u0131yor hale getirmesi. ABD\u2019de ilk olarak film yap\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 Harvey Weinstein\u2019\u0131n taciz ve tecav\u00fcz\u00fcne maruz kalan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bunu ortaya \u00e7\u0131karmas\u0131yla ba\u015flayan ve t\u00fcm kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 anlatmaya y\u00fcreklendiren #MeToo (Ben de) hareketi, k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede ba\u015fka \u00fclkelere yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Hareketin T\u00fcrkiye\u2019deki yank\u0131s\u0131 ise ancak \u015fimdi \u015fekilleniyor. Kad\u0131nlar sosyal medyada, #uykular\u0131n\u0131zka\u00e7s\u0131n #susmabitsin ba\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131 alt\u0131nda, istismarc\u0131 erkeklerin cehenneme \u00e7evirdi\u011fi hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne seriyor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u201cKad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esast\u0131r\u201d nedir, ne de\u011fildir?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00d6te yandan, harekete y\u00f6nelik erkek egemen savunmac\u0131 refleksler gecikmedi, \u201cKad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 esast\u0131r\u201d ilkesi g\u00fcnah ke\u00e7isi ilan edildi. Bu ilke asl\u0131nda uzun zamand\u0131r bir diren\u00e7le kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131yor. \u201cKad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 mutlak do\u011frudur\u201d \u015feklinde yorumlayanlar, ilkenin tehlikeli oldu\u011funa vurgu yap\u0131yor. Ancak hukuki a\u00e7\u0131dan bu ilkenin ne anlama geldi\u011fi \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131k:\u00a0<\/span><b>Kad\u0131n\u0131n beyan\u0131 soru\u015fturmaya esast\u0131r; aksini ispat y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc erke\u011findir. Politik a\u00e7\u0131dan ise bu ilke mevcut ezen-ezilen ili\u015fkisi i\u00e7inde kad\u0131n\u0131n (erkek taraf\u0131ndan cinsel \u015fiddete, tacize u\u011frayan \u00f6znenin) ma\u011fduriyetini esas alman\u0131n; ili\u015fki, fl\u00f6rt, iltifat vb. savunmalarla \u00f6rtbas edilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan erkek egemen s\u00f6z, tutum ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n birer su\u00e7 oldu\u011funu kabul etmenin ko\u015fuludur.\u00a0<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Elbette yalan beyan, t\u00fcm yarg\u0131 uyu\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131labilecek bir sorun. Ancak bir kad\u0131n\u0131n, erke\u011fin de\u011fil s\u00fcrekli kendisinin sorgulanaca\u011f\u0131 ve \u015f\u00fcpheli bulunaca\u011f\u0131 erkek egemen sistem i\u00e7erisinde ve hatta delil varl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bile faile beraat veya iyi hal indirimi h\u00fckmeden \u00f6rneklerin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, b\u00f6yle bir yalan beyanda bulunma olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 l\u00fctfen siz hesaplay\u0131n!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Asl\u0131nda if\u015fay\u0131, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n d\u00f6rt bir yan\u0131nda devlet ve yarg\u0131 sistemlerinin kay\u0131ran pratiklerinin bir sonucu olarak g\u00f6rebiliriz. Cinsel \u015fiddetin genellikle kapal\u0131 kap\u0131lar ard\u0131nda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyor olu\u015fu; kan\u0131t bulman\u0131n ve s\u00fcreci yarg\u0131ya ta\u015f\u0131man\u0131n zorlu\u011fu; kad\u0131nlar\u0131n beyanlar\u0131na \u015f\u00fcpheyle yakla\u015fan, ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imlerine, ne giydiklerine, nerede olduklar\u0131na odaklanan ve aylar, y\u0131llar s\u00fcren davalar\u0131n sonucunda tacizci\/tecav\u00fczc\u00fc erkekleri aklayan kararlar\u0131n \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131\u2026 Erkek egemen kapitalizm \u00fczerinde y\u00fckselen burjuva hukuku, kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in if\u015fay\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz hale getirdi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kendilerine veya ba\u015fka bir kad\u0131na haks\u0131zl\u0131k yapan erkekleri if\u015fa eden kad\u0131nlar\u0131 yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmamak, bu kad\u0131nlar\u0131n haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131 sesi sahiplenmek gibi bir sorumlulu\u011fumuz var. Bu nedenle bu cesareti g\u00f6steren t\u00fcm k\u0131z karde\u015flerimizin yan\u0131nday\u0131z. \u00d6te yandan, hareketin etkileri, sosyal medyayla s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 kalmamal\u0131. Failler yarg\u0131lanmal\u0131 ve hesap vermeli. T\u00fcm kad\u0131n \u00f6rg\u00fctleri ve siyasi partiler olarak yasal s\u00fcrecin de takip\u00e7isi olmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kad\u0131nlar hayatlar\u0131 boyunca kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 erkek \u015fiddeti pratiklerinin bedenlerinde ve ruhlar\u0131nda a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaray\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fcze serecekti elbet. Konu\u015fmak kolay olmad\u0131, olmayacak. Ama art\u0131k yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 biliyoruz. \u0130lk k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131m, Leyla isimli bir Twitter kullan\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n, yazar Hasan Ali Topta\u015f hakk\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir yorumla \u00e7ak\u0131ld\u0131. Bu yorumda Topta\u015f\u2019\u0131n kendisi ve arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 taciz etti\u011fi ima ediliyordu ve erkek egemen s\u00f6ylem an\u0131nda [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":588,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[126],"tags":[139,141,140],"class_list":["post-585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-politika","tag-ifsa","tag-kadin-beyani","tag-taciz"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=585"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/585\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":590,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/585\/revisions\/590"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/588"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadindayanismasi.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}